The Questions Clients Ask — And What Your Answers Reveal About Your Practice

Early in my practice, I noticed something useful: the questions a prospective client asks before a project begins are not just logistical. They are diagnostic. They tell you how that client understands the nature of design, what they expect from the relationship, and — if you pay close attention — whether this is someone you're genuinely suited to work with.

How you answer those questions is equally diagnostic. Your answers reveal your positioning, your confidence in your own value, and the degree to which you've thought through the principles behind your practice.

Here are the questions I hear most often — and the thinking I'd encourage you to bring to each one.

Client Questions As Diagnostic Signals

Not every question means what it appears to mean on the surface. "What do you charge?" is sometimes a logistical question. More often, it's a test — a way of gauging whether you'll apologize for your fees or stand behind them with clarity.

"What if I don't like the design?" is rarely about genuine skepticism of your abilities.

It's usually an expression of vulnerability — the client signaling that they've been disappointed before, or that they're uncertain about how much creative authority to extend to someone they've just met.

Learning to hear what's underneath a question, and to respond to that rather than just the surface content, is one of the more valuable skills a designer can develop. It is, in many ways, the same skill you use when reading a site: looking past the obvious to what the space is actually telling you.

"What Do You Charge?" — And What It's Really Asking

The fee question deserves a clear, confident answer — not a hedge, not an apology, and not a lengthy justification.

My design fee is a flat rate scaled to the scope and complexity of the project.

I state this directly, explain what the deliverable is — a fully realized Master Plan Concept Design, not a preliminary sketch — and move on. The fee is what it is because the work is what it is.

What I'd caution against is the instinct to over-explain.

If you spend three minutes justifying your fee before you've described what you deliver, you've already communicated uncertainty about your own value. State the fee. Describe the deliverable. Let the client respond.

The clients worth working with don't need convincing on this point. They need clarity.

"Can I Use My Own Contractors?"

This is one of the most instructive questions a client can ask, because the honest answer requires you to have thought carefully about your own model.

My answer is structured around the four-phase Bianchi Process, found here, on my client-facing website. Phase I is always design only.

Beyond that, the question becomes one of execution quality. Outdoor environments are interpretive in a way that built structures often aren't. The best design, handed to a team without fluency in its intent, will arrive diminished.

 
Your job isn’t just to produce drawings. It’s to steward the design from concept through completion — and that requires presence, authority, and a team that shares your creative standards.
— Kirk Bianchi
 

For designers building their practices, this is worth thinking through structurally.

Do you have a curated network of craftsmen whose work you trust and whose sensibility aligns with yours?

If not, developing that network is as important as developing your design skills. The team is part of the method.

"How Detailed Are Your Drawings?"

This question usually comes from clients who have worked with designers before — and been handed concept drawings that weren't buildable, or construction drawings that didn't capture the design intent.

The honest answer is that drawing detail should be calibrated to phase and purpose.

Concept drawings establish direction and enable budget conversations. Construction drawings give craftsmen the specificity they need in the field. Conflating the two — delivering over-detailed concepts, or under-detailed construction documents — serves neither purpose well.

Explaining your phased process in response to this question does two things: it answers the question directly, and it demonstrates that you have a structured methodology rather than an ad hoc approach. Both matter to a client who is evaluating whether to trust you with a significant investment.

"What If I Don't Like It?"

I've heard this question hundreds of times.

My answer has never changed: genuine design is not guesswork. It is a disciplined process of listening, observation, and elimination — grounded in the specific qualities of the site and the client's own articulated intentions.

That said, I always include a revision session in Phase I. Not because I expect to miss, but because design is a conversation. The revision session is where the client's response to the work becomes part of the work.

What this question is really asking is: Do you listen? Will you take my input seriously?

The answer to both should be yes — with the important caveat that you're listening in order to serve the design, not to produce whatever the client describes. Those are not the same thing, and the distinction is worth making gently but clearly.

"How Long Will This Take?"

Scope and complexity determine timeline, and I say so.

What I don't do is offer an artificially compressed estimate to make the engagement feel more accessible.

The clients who are genuinely suited to this kind of work understand that what they're creating will be part of their lives for decades. They're not looking for fast. They're looking for right.

Your answer to the timeline question should reflect that understanding — because it signals whether you share their values or whether you're managing their expectations downward to close the engagement.

Answering Well Is Part Of The Design

The pre-project conversation is not separate from the design process. It is the beginning of it.

The way you listen, the clarity of your thinking, the confidence with which you describe your method — all of it shapes the client's understanding of what they're entering into and what kind of collaboration is possible.

Designers who answer these questions well — not defensively, not apologetically, but with the calm authority of someone who has thought deeply about their practice — attract clients who are ready to engage at that level.

That alignment, established before the work begins, is what makes the work itself possible.

If you're thinking about how to develop and articulate your own design methodology, The Bianchi Method™ is the framework I've built that work around.

Learn more at KirkBianchi.com. →

Kirk Bianchi

Kirk Bianchi is a luxury outdoor living designer based in Scottsdale, Arizona, with more than 35 years of experience creating environments that are as rigorously designed as they are beautiful to live in.

As an independent Artistic Director — never a builder or contractor — Kirk brings four disciplines together under a single creative vision: pool and watershape design, landscape, exterior architecture, and architectural lighting. This four-discipline synthesis, developed over decades of practice and refined into The Bianchi Method™, is what distinguishes his work from the outdoor living industry at large.

Kirk is the winner of the 2025 Million Dollar Pool Design Challenge, a GENESIS/PHTA Faculty Adviser, and the creator of the Master Designer Methods course. He has been named "Master of the Southwest" by Phoenix Home & Garden.

For affluent homeowners seeking a singular outdoor living environment, Kirk's portfolio and design process can be found at bianchidesign.com.

For design professionals, design students, and mentorship clients, his teaching framework, courses, and industry writing live at kirkbianchi.com.

https://www.kirkbianchi.com/
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